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Demanding Dignity on Kabul’s Streets, Afghan Women March Against Sexual Harassment

Kabul, Afghanistan – Holding signs that read “This street belongs to me too”; “We won’t tolerate insults anymore”; and a banner with a verse from the Koran emphasizing the wrongness of abusing women, around 30 young Afghan women and men marched in the sweltering afternoon heat to protest the rampant and often violent sexual harassment of women and girls on Kabul’s streets.

The demonstration was the first of its kind in Afghanistan. Though small in size, its message was clear and, in Afghanistan’s extremely conservative public space, incendiary: street harassment is an attack on women’s right to coexist in society with men, and it must end.

Composed mainly of members of two local youth organizations and including several men, the demonstrators marched from the gates of Kabul University, a notorious hangout for harassers, to the Afghanistan Independent Human Rights Commission about half a mile away.

Passing through bustling streets full of food vendors and shoppers, they handed out leaflets urging their fellow Afghans to recognize the cruelty of harassing women and take action in their everyday lives to counter the abuse around them.

Keenly aware of their country’s history of peaceful demonstrations turning bloody, the organizers had initially feared violence from male opponents and hostile members of law enforcement.

Police officers stayed close to the column of demonstrators throughout the march and, in a welcome departure from recent public protests, the demonstration proceeded without interruption and concluded peacefully.

In the days leading up to the march, organizers from the newly-formed feminist group Young Women for Change received online messages of solidarity from fellow anti-harassment activists as far away as Slovenia and Yemen, as well as an outpouring of encouragement from women elsewhere in Afghanistan and in the Afghan diaspora.

Flanked by members of the Afghan and international press, the marchers knew their message would be carried to a far wider audience than the thousands who witnessed their protest firsthand.

The organizers hoped the deluge of media coverage would ignite a public discussion of the problem of sexual harassment and encourage more young Afghans, including men, to join the nascent movement to make their country’s streets safe for women.

“This is only the beginning,” one participant said afterward. “We have more actions planned.”

Supporters are already coming forward with ideas for future acts of protest. Following the march, one Afghan man posted the following provocative suggestion on the Facebook wall of Young Women for Change:

A message to all my Afghan sisters,

First of all, I would like to thank those of you who initiated the campaign against sexual harassment on the streets of Kabul, and those of you who participated in the rally. Bravo!

Second, I humbly suggest to create a Facebook page for “Sex Offenders in Kabul”. Every time a car stops by asking if you want to go with him, take his picture or his car’s license plate, with your cell phones. Anyone who says something demeaning and unethical to you on the street, take his picture secretly so he wouldn’t know. Post them all on facebook. Hopefully it will teach them a lesson. Let all sisters and mothers know what their brother/son is up to. Just an idea!

Stay tuned.

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  • Walbersdorf

    I admire the courage and forthrightness of these young women and their helpers very much.
    One of many– but definitely a first step towards women’s rights for human rights

  • Isabel

    You go girls!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/salahuddin.rahimi Salahuddin Rahimi

    Salam,
     
    I am one of the Kabul citizens who witnessed several sexual harassments to several ladies and girls on the streets of Kabul city by different people.
    I would say that this act is against our religion, culture and being an Afghan. Because being a true Afghan it’s very hard specially for me to watch girls and women being abused by men if I am having my own sister and mother at home. Now let’s think about the solution of this problem.
    Can this problem be solved if I see a man abusing on the street a women or a girl and I start fighting with him or if someone looks to my sister having bad sight, it’s an easy work at that time if I fight with, either I will teach that man a lesson and beat him or I will get beated. Will this solution have any effect? And if tomorrow again that man sees my sister will he stop abusing her.
     
    The other solution is that if our sisters and mothers avoid unnecessary movements to the cities and avoid wearing clothes from which parts of the body is visible and gives men the sexual desire. Please remember that we are living in an Afghan society. If coming out to the city is necessary, they may were Islamic hijab.
     Brothers and sisters let me tell you and I swear on the name of Allah SWT that if I see a women or a girl on the streets wearing Islamic hijab, I am un able to even look at her, if I see a reason to speak with her I speak with her in a respectful manner and that is because she is gaining for herself. Let’s look for the meaning of Hijab and let me clear this if a Muslim women knows the meaning of Islamic hijab, she will love wearing hijab. Hijab is a Moral of a Muslim woman.
    I can assure you that a woman with a Hijab is never being harassed sexually by anyone in the city and if someone disagrees with me or have seen such harassments please correct me.
    Now if a woman comes to the city, wearing clothes that invites people to herself, my opinion is that this is not men’s fault. 
     
    Making these sort of protests will never have an effect and in my opinion men will never stop abusing women and girls on the streets.
     
    If a woman is really willing to be protected in this community and being respected, my opinion is that she follows the rules of Islam in her life.
     
    I would also like to raise this question to the readers and request for answering the question honestly. At what level are our sisters on the streets of Kabul following the rules of Islam in wearing clothes?
     
    Thanks,
     

    • Lwvcc

      Do you really have so little control over your emotions that the sight of some part of the body not covered by a hijab arouses your sexual desire so that you cannot control your actions?  You need to see a doctor about self control.  Your lack of it and your acceptance of it make you the weak link in Afghan society.

    • Guest

      Perhapes it would be okay to talk to a woman with respect regardless of what they wear?  Woman should change their habits because men are unable to? 

    • Guest

      A woman does not “ask” to be abused in any way by wearing certain types of clothes. It is up to the men to respect every woman, for they are entitled to equal rights regardless of what they are wearing. Have you no self-control? If men are able to do it in other countries, I don’t see why it would be impossible to stop harassing a woman because of what she is wearing on the streets of Kabul. 

    • سکوت را بشکنیم

      to support this
      movement. I am going to type in Dari for our self-righteous countrymen who
      think they have the right to insult a human based on their clothing. 

      اگر هر روز ده
      بار، مثل زنان، مردان این حرف ها را می شنیدند، دیوانه می شدند و روزانه دهها جنگ
      می شد: “دختر خاله، میری؟” “فاحشه ها چقه زیاد شدن.”
      “کاشکی طالبا پس بیاین که شما فاحشه ها بفهمین” “قیمتت چند
      است؟” و اگر چند بار یک مرد در میان سرک به بدنشان دست می زد، باز درک می
      کردند که ما چی روز و حالی داریم.
      قُلْ
      لِلْمُؤْمِنِینَ یَغُضُّوا مِنْ أَبْصارِهِمْ (نور؛30) “ای رسول ما به مردان
      مؤمن بگو تا چشمها را از نگاه ناروا بپوشند.” اگر نگاهِ ناروا گناه است،
      توهین، اهانت، پرزه رفتن و آزار دادن گناهی بزرگتر است.
      اگر مشکل آزار و
      اذیت خانم ها مرتبط به لباس آنها می بود، چرا همه زنان، چادری پوش، حجاب پوش و
      چادر به سر، با این مشکل روبرو هستند؟ آیا آزار دادن خانمی که به نظر شخصی خود ما
      حجاب به تن ندارد، درست است؟ آیا دین به ما این اجازه را می دهد که زنان را به
      خاطر حجابِ شان مورد بی احترامی قرار دهیم؟ آیا احترام به زنان فقط در صورتی که
      حجاب داشته باشند ضروری است یا زنان از کرامت انسانی برخوردار هستند و باید در هر
      صورتی احترام شوند؟

       

      حتی زنانیکه
      حجاب می پوشند، در آرامش نیستند. همه زنان، چادری پوش، حجاب پوش و چادر به سر، با
      این مشکل روبرو هستند. در پوهنتون کابل، زنانیکه در پوهنحی شرعیات استند بیشتر از
      همه مورد آزار قرار می گیرند. در سرک ها خانم هایی که چادری می پوشند. حتی در خانه خود
      محفوظ نیستم؛ براساس قونسول بین المللی حقوق بشر 85% زنان افغان با خشونتِ
      خانوادگی روبرو هستند. راه حل در این نیست که در خانه بمانیم و یا خود را بیشتر
      بپوشانیم، راه حل این است که آگاهی مردم ما را در مورد اهمیت سهم گیری و اشتراک
      زنان در جامعه بلند ببریم و طرز فکر مردم را در مورد ارزش زنان تغییر بدهیم تا در
      صورت دیدن زن فقط به بدنش نی، بلکه به وجودش (فکرش، اهمیتش، مشارکتش، لیاقتش)
      ببینند!

       اگر چپن
      بپوشی، میگن ایرانی گک و آزار می تن. اگر حجاب بپوشی، میگن حجابی و آزار می تن.
      اگر چادری بپوشی می گن چادری پوشی ها حتما دلیل دارن که روی خوده پت می کنن، بد
      کاره هستن، و آزارت می تن. اگر پنجابی بپوشی به خاطر رنگارنگ بودنش آزار می تن.
      اگر لباسِ محلی بپوشی، به خاطر مفشن بودنش آزار می تن. چی باید بپوشی که آزار
      نبینی؟ چی باید کنی که آزار نبینی؟ آزار و اذیت در دست خانم ها نیست. مردان را
      باید یاد بدهیم، پسران را باید تعلیم بدهیم که به زنان و خواهران خویش احترام کنند
      به خاطریکه همه ما انسان هستم و از کرامت انسانی برخوردار. زنان، چادری پوش، حجاب
      پوش و چادر به سر، با این مشکل روبرو هستند؟ آیا آزار دادن خانمی که به نظر شخصی
      خود ما حجاب به تن ندارد، درست است؟ آیا دین به ما این اجازه را می دهد که زنان را
      به خاطر حجابِ شان مورد بی احترامی قرار دهیم؟ آیا احترام به زنان فقط در صورتی که
      حجاب داشته باشند ضروری است یا زنان از کرامت انسانی برخوردار هستند و باید در هر
      صورتی احترام شوند؟

      در جامعه ما اگر زن باشی، مجرم استی! چرا هیچ کس به پسران جوانی به بدن
      زنان دست می زنند، نمی گوید که همرنگ جماعت شود و احترام بیاموزد!؟

       مشکل در این است
      که ما به زنان و مردان خود یاد نمی دهیم که به زن باید به دیده برابر و محترمانه
      بنگرند. زمانی که در افغانستان زن به دنیا می آیی، جامعه به شما می آموزد که چگونه
      از زن بودن خود شرمسار باشی. به شما یاد داده می شود که چگونه از داشتن موهای بلند
      و یا اندام زنانه خود خجالت بکشی. یاد می گیری که چگونه با شانه های افتاده راه
      بروی و مجبورت می کنند به این باور برسی که این حق طبیعی دیگران است که با تو
      بدرفتاری کنند.این باعث می شود که نه تنها مردان، بلکه زنان هم به زنان ظلم کنند
      چون خود را و دیگر زنان را جنس دوم و بی ارزش تر از مردان می بینند.

      فرهنگی که بیشتر
      از آزادی، برابری و هنر آزاد به لباس مردم توجه می کند، از بین برود، توته توته
      شود، محو شود بهتر است!

       

  • Rgm1591

    so amazing that in ten years so much can change in this country. you go girls!

  • Humira2000

    Your right Brother i am agree with u i also see my few sister that they wearing unislamic dress i mean very tight dress for that our brother saying bad things for that dear sister dont be abgry or sad just be carefull of ur dress 

    • Anonymous

      Approach

  • http://twitter.com/34Million Jane Roberts

    You go girls and boys, women and men for gender equality! Congratulations!  It really is the only hope for people, the planet, and peace. Jane Roberts 34 Million Friends of the United Nations Population Fund. http://www.34millionfriends.org 

  • Whitneyeskew

    I have to wonder about a culture in which it is okay for men to be so weak.  I do agree that provocative clothing is worn at a risk, but no one should have to roll up in a bed sheet just to go to town.  Get a grip on yourselves, men of Afghanistan.

  • Whitneyeskew

    I have to wonder about a culture in which it is okay for men to be so weak.  I do agree that provocative clothing is worn at a risk, but no one should have to roll up in a bed sheet just to go to town.  Get a grip on yourselves, men of Afghanistan.

  • Salahuddinrahimi2

    Dear Whitneyeskew,
     
    You do not need to wonder about our culture. Just if you got some time read what our culture says and how it shows us the way to respect women in the community. In the western community it is said that there is equality in gender. Men and women are having the same rights. They can wear whatever they want; have affairs with whomever they want and so on.
    My study of the western culture is that they use females just like a sex machine for desire. Please compare our culture to it. Wait! when I say our culture I mean the actual Islamic culture.
    I am not saying that women should be prisoned in the house. They are having the total write to come out of their houses and work and have jobs if necessary.
    Now let’s compare men that follow the Islamic culture and men that follow the western culture, who are weak and who are not?
    In the western culture Men and women date each other and have sexual affairs without marriage, one man is having three, four, … girl friends. Children are born not only from one father but from more than one father. No one is sure in the western world that who is the person who claims to be his father, is this his father or not unless they have their DNA tests.
    One of my colleagues sitting next to me is from the west. I told him that I am single and will soon get married. He said that do you know any girl. I told him no. Then he said that how can you people marry a girl or a women without passing a time with her ( He means that I should have had all sort of relationships with that girl whom I will be marring)
     
    In the Islamic culture no man or women is having the right to have any relation with its counter sex unless they are married to each other. (I mean by any relation, the relation that a husband and a wife is having)
    Boys and girls wait until they get married.
     
    You say that we are weak. We wait until the day we get married but you people (I mean by you people, the followers of the western culture) do not have that day. You people are sexually saturated and the desire of sexual relation is less than us (Because you people date each other). If the western culture followers date two, three, … women at a time, doesn’t it show that they are using the women as a sexual machine. (Which Culture shows good respect to women?)
     
    I hope you have all realized the reason, why hijab is necessary.
    Some people say that why can men wear whatever they want and women cannot. I would say that its 100 percent untrue. Men are also not authorized to wear anything they want. Men are also obligated not to wear such cloths wear it arises the sexual desire of the counter part in the community.
     
    If the girls and the women in the streets of Kabul city claim that we will wear anything we like but we want our selves protected. My answer will be No sisters nobody can guarantee your protection unless you protect your selves and that is very easy, while coming out of your houses just wear good Hijabs and follow the rules of Islamic culture.
    Their won’t be any need for all these protests.
     
     
    Thanks,
     

  • holly

    I’m glad to see a peaceful protest end peacefully. Good luck to the women in Afghanistan.

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